"For me, living Benedictine Values in my daily life means trying to recognize the Presence of Christ in myself and those around me. Preferring nothing whatever to His love and sharing this peaceful joy with others, knowing that I have a spiritual connection with the Sisters and with the Oblates of my community. Together we stand firmly with the Light of Christ burning in our hearts." 


-Barbara Weidenhof

Oblate Co-director


The mission of our Oblate program is to

create opportunities to grow in the Spirit of

Saints Benedict and Scholastica as seekers of the Living God.


We, members of the Benedictine Oblate Community of Saint Benedict Monastery, bear witness to the peace that the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the rule of our Holy Father St. Benedict have brought into our lives.


We embrace in our lives the values expressed in the Holy Rule of St. Benedict, according to our station in life: stability of heart, fidelity to the spirit of the monastic way of life and obedience to the will of God. These open us in love to the social values of hospitality, service to others and responsible stewardship.


2026 Oblate Schedule

Each meeting begins with Morning Praise and Eucharist at 9:00 am

followed by brunch and meeting at 11:15 am. Zoom attendance is available.


January 18

Lectio: Chapter 58

Reception of New Members

February 15

Ceremony of Oblation, Group Picture, Personal Sharing

March 15

Discernment Process and Discussion

April 19

Election of 2nd Co-director

of the Oblates

May 17

Topic to Be Announced

June 14-19

Benedictine Sisters’ Retreat:

All Oblates Welcome—

Must Register to attend

June 21

Oblate Retreat: Topic to Be Announced

July 19

Topic to be announced

August 16

Topic to be announced

September 20

Topic to be announced

October 18

Topic to be announced

November 15

A Spirituality of Gratitude

December 13

Reflection and Discussion on Incarnation

Celebrating with our new Oblates!

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    We welcome our new Oblates: Tom and Patti Kaczynski, Kathy Suska, Peggy Clements Dawson and Jamie Dillon.

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    Oblation Ceremony October 2024

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    Oblation Ceremony October 2024

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    Oblation Ceremony October 2024

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    Oblation Ceremony October 2024

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    Oblation Ceremony October 2024

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    Oblation Ceremony October 2024

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    Blessing of the new Oblates during Oblation Ceremony October 2024

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Oblate Activities

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    Joyce Stewart enjoys the mandala retreat.

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    JoAnn Marty Davis and Joyce Cummings engage in retreat activities

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    Oblates at the monastery Peace Garden

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    Oblate renewal, May 2025

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    Sisters bless the Oblates as part of their renewal ceremony. May 2025

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    Oblate renewal, May 2025

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    On August 26, the Oblates came together to pray Compline for the healing of our nation. 

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    On August 26, the Oblates came together to pray Compline for the healing of our nation. 

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    On August 26, the Oblates came together to pray Compline for the healing of our nation. 

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You are invited!


The Benedictine Sisters of Pittsburgh and all of the Oblates invite you to explore the possibility of becoming an Oblate of St. Benedict. If you desire a deeper spiritual life, if you would like a group of like-minded people to support you on your journey, if you want the wisdom of the Rule of Benedict as your guide, look no further. Our Oblates, lay women and men, are here to welcome and accompany you.


For more information contact the Oblate Co-directors

Sister Evelyn Dettling, OSB: edettling.1936@gmail.com

Barbara Weidenhof, Oblate: treeleaf3@msn.com

You are invited!


The Benedictine Sisters of Pittsburgh and all of the Oblates invite you to explore the possibility of becoming an Oblate of St. Benedict. If you desire a deeper spiritual life, if you would like a group of like-minded people to support you on your journey, if you want the wisdom of the Rule of Benedict as your guide, look no further. Our Oblates, lay women and men, are here to welcome and accompany you.


For more information contact the Oblate Co-directors

Sister Evelyn Dettling, OSB: edettling.1936@gmail.com

Barbara Weidenhof, Oblate: treeleaf3@msn.com